Couples Counseling

Tiffany called in a panic. She was worried her marriage was over.

She and her husband, Jack, couldn’t say more than five words to each other before they started to bicker.

They hadn’t been intimate in months, and their lives seemed to revolve around their kids.

Tiffany loved Jack, but she didn’t know if she was still in love with him.

Of course!

It was going to take work, and they both had to commit and invest in the process.

Early in their counseling, Jack and Tiffany realized they had the same overall goal: to stay together.

They also realized they had put everything else before their relationship.

They both looked at me like I was crazy when I told them their relationship had to be their top priority.

I explained the trickle-down effect: if their relationship is not in a good place, that effects their kids and their jobs.

They agreed to do their homework and carve out at least 30 minutes a day to reconnect with one another.

As time went on, it felt less like homework.

Tiffany was actively engaged when Jack talked about his new project at work.

Jack planned a date night for the first time in years.

Their kids seemed happier, too, and even mentioned how nice it was to have dinner together without the fighting.

Yes, there is – if you’re both working towards the same outcome.

Most couples reach out when they’re at the point of breaking up, or they feel like they’re having the same argument over and over.

Sessions will be hard. Most likely, there will be tears.

But there’s also breakthroughs during sessions.

…and how to better meet one another’s needs.

Many people feel more comfortable talking about, and addressing, the “hard stuff” with me in the room.

I’ll help support you through it.

I won’t pick sides and will give you both the opportunity to talk.

Get to the root of what’s preventing you from having a fulfilling relationship.

It’s possible to get your relationship back on track.

Reach out to get the process started – it only takes a minute.